Saturday, June 27, 2015

2 Malcha Marg

Our home is 2 Malcha Marg FF (FF means first floor, which to us Americans is really the second floor).  Anyway, our home is brand new.  There are four apartments total and we are only the second family to occupy the building.  The other two apartments are still being built.  I would argue ours is still under construction as well, though it seems as if noone wants to work on it.  The first night in the home was fine - the girls went to bed around roughly midnight, soon after arrival.  I put some things away, showered and got into bed at 12:45.  The girls slept until close to 4:30 and I laid with them for another hour until I decided we were all to excited to explore the house and look out our windows to sleep more.  Furthermore, there was a beeping that occurred all night long, about every two-four minutes and I could not wait to get it to stop.

I sucessfully made coffee and fed the girls bananas and toast with peanut butter and then put away all their clothes and my own before we were picked up to go to the Embassy for check in.  I thought maybe I would do check in, say hi to my colleagues, and head back home for some more sleep but it turned out I worked most of the day.  I did leave the office a half hour early (at 4:30).  When I got home Raj had managed to get us hooked up with Wi-Fi and a plumber came to look at one of our bathrooms that was unusable.  Both girls had been sleeping for over three hours and we couldn't wake them so I took the opportunity to try and sleep.  But that BEEPING!

Turns out it was our alarm.  It was beeping because the kitchen window was not locked.  I thought - easy fix!  Nope, the window would not lock because the mechanism was not properly aligned so I had to disarm the alarm.  Easy again!  Not.  Nothing worked.  So I called the Embassy and someone was over in a matter of minutes to disconnect the alarm.  Great!  But not...because then, all of our A/C units went out as did our refrigerator and most of our electricity in the master bedroom.  Another call to the Embassy...only this time noone came right away.  I figured, its after hours so we will make an easy pasta dinner.  By this time it was almost 8 at night (the girls woke from their six hour nap just minutes before).  However, we could not get the stove to light.  I eventually got my camping cap on and decided I could just light the gas stove with a match - amazingly I had those packed in my suitcase - and was able to boil some water.  During dinner I had about four interruptions of phone calls regarding our lack of power which was great that people cared but unfortunate because I was just tired and hungry.  Finally at 9pm electricians arrived and fixed MOST of the A/C units except for the one in our bedroom...MOST of the lights, except for one in the kids bathroom, and taught me how to use the stove.  By 9:30 I was toast.  Anya stayed up to watch the Little Mermaid, Elia fell asleep at 9 and I went to bed.

Unfortunatly bedtime didnt last long.  The girls woke at 1:50am and Raj stayed up with them in their room until 4:30.  Again, coffee being made, we enjoyed an early morning of learning our house and how to use the million lightswitches (that is what I needed to do to turn on the stove...hit a lightswitch...what?!)  Breakfast for the girls consisted of mangoes, apples, and goldfish - breakfast of champions!  and I stuck to peanut butter and toast.  The rest of the morning was spent shopping at the commissary where things are cheap, just kidding!  You can get a jar of miracle whip for about 9 USD.  What a steal, who even likes miracle whip?!  Being conservative we found some basics and essentials that we couldn't be picky about (like laundry detergent).  I also got a ton of sticky pads to label our lightswitches so I know which ones go to lights, fans, appliances, and which ones do nothing.

We also fit in some pool time and the girls finally went down for a nap at 1:30 again...after being up for 12 hours I think they might want a long nap but that is not going to be allowed! No Sir!  At 3:30 these girls are getting up and going to the park and having a GRAND time before a more reasonable 7:30 bedtime.

I. Am. Exhasted.

The Flight

A lot seems to have transpired in the past four days.  Not having a cell phone to blog from means this post will have no pictures.  Sorry, but I figured I would warn you now.  Trust me though - the story is eventful!

I wish wish wish I had a photo to show of us and all our belongings at the airport.  We called a taxi from the Oakwood and specified we would need a van, or two.  We had two kids, a cat, four extra large suitcases three regular sized suitcases, three small bags, two car seats, a stroller, and a child's hiking pack.  Amazingly we crammed ourselves into one van.  Then, somehow, we made it to check in at United..where no one wanted to assist us and the piles of baggage that followed us.  It took us over an hour to check in (and there was no line).  First there was the fight about what the extra bags cost, how many extra bags we were checking, and what the federal government paid for.  Let me tell you friends, we get no break for moving overseas.  United only allows ONE bag a person and the second bag is an extra $100.  Good thing we only had two extra bags.

Then there was the cat fiasco.  I had made reservations for Moya about a month in advance.  I had paid for her vet visit (twice, because I didn't know it had to be done ten days before we departed) and I ensured I had the right FAA approved carrier and all the necessary paperwork (again, shout out to Kendra for getting all that done for us while we were on vacation!)  Still, the United person at check in was confused and called over her supervisor.  Her supervisor asked if we were military, to which I responded "no."  Then he told me that because I was no military I could not bring my cat.  WHAT?!  Raj immediately had the United website up on his phone which clearly stated federal government could bring pets on United and I had an email from the U.S. Embassy which told me the ONLY carrier that allowed pets was United.  He stood by his word for a while but eventually broke down and called someone else who said, if we were Foreign Service it was ok.  Now, technically I am a civil servant going overseas on a foreign service LNA tour, but I was not about to lay those cards on the table.  Instead I insisted he look at my travel orders and take those.  He looked all over and said, nothing here says you are foreign service.  *sigh*  or rather *Brie FREAKOUT*  In the end, he conceded and allowed Moya to board.

After all this we had about one hour to get through security and to our gate.  So much for us being worried that we would have all sorts of time to kill.  Raj is carrying around a backpack and a car seat, I have a kid, a diaper bag, and two other carry-ons, and Anya is pulling her weight with her penguin backpack filled with toys.  I am already dreading the flights.  Luckily the flight to Newark was a short hour and the girls were pretty well entertained, until we landed - and then sat on the tarmac for 45 minutes because we had no gate.  By the time we got off the plane we had just enough time to eat dinner, get the girls changed into pajamas and have the United folks check our passports before it was board time.  I credit Kathleen Diina-Feldman for her blog of her summer vacation because that gave me the idea to lug this crazy carseat on board.  We were the only smart parents who did - Elia slept for about 11 hours of the 14 hour flight.  Anya watched three movies and then slept for about 4 on the floor of the plane.  The last three hours I switched seats with Raj so he could have the most fun :)

Arrival in New Delhi was a bit confusing.  Being diplomats getting through immigration was easy - then we found our carousel and luckily retrieved all six of our checked bags.  We eventually figured out the other car seat, stroller, and hiking pack arrived at another carousel and got all our belongings in about an hour.  The fun part was reuniting with Moya.  Noone seemed to know where she was or how we would get her.  One guy told us to ask a United agent (noone was marked as being affiliated with United, because why would you?) another guy told us to go to carousel 14, another person said they will find us...really?  Eventually she did come out, she was alive, and the girls were excited to see her.  We quickly found our social sponsor who brought the biggest van known to man to get us so we easily fit all our belongings into it.  A half hour later we were in our new home....more on that later!


Tuesday, June 23, 2015

The last supper

Today is the last evening we have been n the United States.   Well, I guess we technically have a full day here tomorrow but we have to get to the airport by 130 to check in....so for us this is the last supper.

Our flight from Montana to DC was sad.  Anya even said "I'm sorry momma".  I said for what? And she responded,  "for leaving here. "  soooo sweet. I think my girls might be mountain ladies.



We got back to VA and father's day was around the corner.   I celebrated by going on a ten mile run with Natalie and letting Raj enjoy the girls :)  luckily for him they slept in til 8am which is huge for our girls.  then we enjoyed a buffet breakfast at Freddies (the gay bar near our house) and enjoyed a last day with my parents.  We ended the evening with a pool party with friends (Lauren, Ryan, Nora, and Alice). It was a great evening and a good distraction.

The next day we spent running errands like getting haircuts and saying more goodbyes,  to Raj's parents, Marvin and Kendra (who awesomely took care of Moya and ensured her paperwork was ready for India), and Sonia and her daughter Natalya.  Anya will miss her buddy!!!




Tomorrow we leave.  Raj and I are half packed,  the kids have no idea what this move means,  and I am strangely calm knowing I start a new job in two days and will he living halfway across the globe.

We will shut off cell service in two days...new people are living in our house, and three of my friends gave birth to baby girls this week.  I will miss everyone!!!


Friday, June 19, 2015

A Listical...Seven things I love about Andi

So, one of the great things about my cousin getting married in Montana was that I could visit some new National Parks. ..which I have now accomplished.  Most importantly I have managed to do this with my very best National Parks friend,  Andi.  I will also give credit here to Ann (Vorick) Juba for the introduction to Dane Alexanders National Parks and Monuments class...where the connection began.

Anyway, since Andi and I met rafting the Canyon in 2003...we have traveled to many national parks.  And now Glacier.   So, an ode to Andi, the seven reasons she is awesome and why I will miss her:

1) She doesn't wear makeup while camping
2) She really listens to Anya tell stories and asks relevant questions even when the tale is bogus..
3) She drinks beer
4) She doesn't know the right way or the wrong way, only the adventurous way
5) She still brings Rocky, our bear mascot, on vacations...the one we bought more than ten years ago on our trip to Death Valley, Yosemite,  Sequoia,  and Kings Canyon. And trusts my girls alone with him too.
6) She knows my bathroom habits to the point where she lets me go first :)
7) She plays great games with me, from silly alphabet games to serious Euchre games and everything in between.



I will miss you, Andi (and Andy!!)  What a great way to close out our vacation.

Wednesday, June 17, 2015

Rocky Pegmatite Granite

Monday was a good day of driving from Chico to Missoula.  We took one last dip in the hot springs, said our last goodbyes to Adam and Les and made a quick visit to Bozeman.   After a delicious meal at NoVa (came recommended but also sounds like home) and some shopping we were on the road again.


We arrived in Bonner/Potomac around 430.  Just in time for the kids to play with their new friends and eat some amazing Elk steaks courtesy of Scott and his hunting skills.  The girls were pretty wound up and failed to fall asleep until close to 10pm.  I am pretending not to note that would be a midnight bedtime on the east coast.  I blame the sun for never setting in Montana.



Tuesday we headed for Glacier National Park!  I started to feel a bit sad on my drive Monday...leaving family behind and thinking our vacation was nearly over...but Tuesday brought a new excitement especially because we were meeting up with Andy and Andi!  Anya was also stoked to learn she would have her own bed and bedroom with Elia in the same place fir four whole nights.

We even got to stop at a local butcher for rib eye steaks and buffalo jerky.  Yummm.  We had a great afternoon complete with a short hike,  our picture at the park entrance,  and stamps in our passport books.

As I write this the girls are "resting" after a nice four mile hike to Avalanche Lake.  Anya walked back almost the whole way too!!  The grandparents arrive soon and that means tomorrow Raj and I get to go on an adult hike :)

I am very glad we are on this vacation.   Not thinking about our renters who just moved in, the builder we have to hire, and the bills we will be paying from all our hotel stays!!

I attempted to upload photos to this blog and failed. ..more to come!

Sunday, June 14, 2015

Operation Recovery

Our night in the Tetons was probably the most exciting yet.  After getting settled in the tent cabins the girls ate some food...and dropped some for which I promptly yelled at them for because. ..BEARS.  Well, that back fired because Anya woke up in the middle of the night screaming and would not stop for over an hour.

When the girls awoke for good at 630 in themorning we were more than ready to hit the road.  We drove through Yellowstone hitting up the main highlights, old faithful,  the grand canyon of Yellowstone, and saw our first Buffalo of the trip.



At 430 we made it to Chico Hot Springs where the grandparents and Vollmer family were gathered for my cousin Emily's wedding.



The weekend has been filled with reconnecting with family and meeting newly acquired family members.  Also, Montana is amazing and we are thinking a Vollmer commune might not be a bad idea.  Anya has also totally taken to my Uncle Art and Aunt Julie and stolen the hearts of many others.   Elia. ..she's still crazy and very much a grandpa's girl.

It's also been nice being in one spot for three nights.  Tomorrow we head out to check out Bozeman and Missoula and visit the Courtney's!


Thursday, June 11, 2015

The Tetons are Grand!

Goodbye Jackson and welcome Grand Teton National Park!

The girls were a bit of a mess after nap.   For one, Anya failed to nap which meant she was a miserable mess the rest of the afternoon.   Elia slept great and enjoyed some park time where she found some friendly dogs to play with, but we forgot she is allergic to dog saliva and her right side of her face blew up.  Thank you Claritin for clearing that up in a matter of minutes.

A thunderstorm kept us indoors after 4pm anyway so we enjoyed some chicken on the grill followed by pool time.  Its probably ill advised but Anya enjoyed some hot tub time.  We also got about 11 hours of sleep out of the girls, sorry Kathleen but its day two and my kids woke up at 715 mountain time!  I think the transition to India will be a piece of cake. Haha.  I hope!



Anyway, we made our way to Jenny Lake and enjoyed a 2.5 hour hike complete with moose and groundhog sightings. Anya probably walked half the way and we took a boar ride back to our starting point.   I call that a successful morning.


We just checked into our tent cabin with rented sleeping bags that might be 30 years old and Anya is napping in the car (another win!)



Tomorrow. ..Yellowstone!

Wednesday, June 10, 2015

Jackson, Wyoming and a minivan

Four people, three checked bags, two carry-ons, and a baby hiking pack made it (somehow...oh and two car seats) on the plane and to Wyoming.  But then...there was the rental car.  Not all of this would fit into our reserved ford escape.  So we upgraded to some Subaru hatchback...nope.  we setted for, wait for it, a minivan!!  I have always been against minivans but man oh man do I already love this beast of a car.  So, we got our minivan and checked into the "cabin" which Raj found for us amidst the craziness of rain inside our hotel room in VA.  We have two queen beds, a pack in play, a bathroom, a sitting area, a kitchen,  and a little porch.  Needless to say I immediately booked us for an extra night here and downgraded our Grand Teton tent camp experience from 2-1 night.

after settling in we immediately found the local brewery (hey we have two toddlers) and had an eventful dinner.   Neither girl ate, both ended up falling and smacking their heads on tables/ the ground and I sat back like any responsible parent and ordered another beverage and a six pack to go.

Lucky for us the kids went to bed without too much more fanfare and slept until 545.  Which was fine with us because. ..we wanted to drive through the Elk Refuge and see some wildlife!  We saw some birds, no animals and settled for some delicious coffee and pastries instead.


Afterwards we did some essential grocery shopping to take full advantage of cooking in for a night and then explored Jackson Hole.  Though it was cold at the top of the mountain it was well worth the view.

as I write this the girls are napping (well, Anya is attempting to) and I am enjoying a beer from the six pack we invested in!  so far vacation is pretty sweet...

Monday, June 8, 2015

No house. ..night four

So our stuff got packed,  boxed, and boxed again.  Hopefully everything is on its way to the right destination.   I freaked for about four days that our computers were packed in UAB and not HHE but was afraid to tell Raj until this morning.   When I finally broke down into tears of anxious frustration and confessed I had no idea how the computers were packed (they were not listed on our inventory to check) he said he watched them get packed HHE. *sighofrelief*


We spent the weekend at my moms which was nice.  Anya, our early riser, slept with the grandparents and we cleaned no dishes.
Monday sparked another round of chaos. Repackaging clothes, moving bags to the neighbors (thanks Rob and Dayna!) Getting Moyas paperwork ready (thanks Marvin and Kendra!!!) Selling my car, cleaning the house...etc...

So at 800pm when we finally had dinner awere ready to get the girls to bed we were feeling quite accomplished.  the girls both fell asleep within a matter of minutes and after a nice hot shower I was equally excited for some shut eye.  Until...Raj starts freaking out because our ceiling is leaking!!! its essentially a waterfall.   We call maintenance,  look at our two sleeping kids, one in a pack n play, our four bags, two car seats, and random belongings strung about.  No...we are not moving rooms!  Thankfully the rain stops,  maintenance comes to check the damage and lets us stay...after putting down lots of towels.  Needless to say our room is compted.  Kids are still asleep.   I am ready for a bloody mary already ;)

Happy move and start to our vacation!

Tuesday, June 2, 2015

CHAOS

We are moving...to NEW DELHI!  But first - we are taking a whirlwind national parks vacation through Wyoming and Montana.  What does this mean in terms of sanity and logistics?  It doesn't.  I am just trying to tell myself it will all work out, we will be fed, clothed, and hopefully have a roof over our heads (most nights).  I also have a binder that reminds me where I have reservations when, what flights I am supposed to be on, and includes massive amounts of copied paperwork -- from the cat's rabies certificate to our Indian visas.

I also have a timeline of events set out for the month of June.  We are on June 2- the calm before the storm - everything seems normal but we know it is not.  We know that, because our clothes are all in piles and suitcases, our belongings are not in place, and the house is *gasp* NOT clean.   June 4-5 movers are coming and we are going to be officially packed out of our house and into the transition phase before we land in India on June 25.  We will spend no more than 4 nights in one location from here on out and I am betting we lose sense of the time zone, naps, and any sense of a schedule.

Speaking of schedules...here it is:

June 5: House empty - relocate to Kentmore Park to be with my parents
June 6-7: Enjoy one last weekend with friends and family (and get our teeth cleaned)
June 8: Return to VA for the final round of vaccinations, spend night in a hotel
June 9: FLY to Jackson Hole, Wyoming (sleep location TBD)
June 10-11: Grand Tetons -- pseudo camping in a tent cabin
June 12: Drive through Yellowstone - see Old Faithful
June 13: Celebrate another Vollmer cousin wedding - YAY EMILY and MITCH
June 14: Enjoy some Vollmer family reunion time and Yellowstone
June 15: Drive to Missoula and stay with the Courtney's (Bonfire and Merriment!)
June 16-19: GLACIER NATIONAL PARK with my best National Park partner - Andrea
June 20: Fly back to DC and stay at another hotel (our house will be occupied with its new renters)
June 21-23: Sell my car, enjoy DC, say goodbye one last time
June 24: Depart for India
June 25: Arrive in India
June 26: The next two years of our Indian life begins...

Enjoy the ride!